My last two weeks or so in Kenya were not the way I imagined the process of saying goodbye. This was all because of a hike I took with my students.
My students were moving fast, agilely climbing over massive boulders and jumping from rock to rock down the steep slope we were on. I suddenly realized that I was going faster than I was comfortable with just trying to keep up with them. I don’t think it was because I was more tired than them necessarily. I was just less sure of my footing on this rough and unfamiliar terrain. Then, with a single step, I braced my weight on a smooth rock, and my foot slipped out from under me, causing my ankle to roll at an unnatural angle against the ground. One rock. One misstep. That’s all it took.
On my hands and knees facing the red soil beneath me, my first thought was, “!#@%* I broke it. I broke my ankle. I hope I didn’t break it.” Then it was, “Of course this would happen. I was this close to making it out of Kenya in a relatively healthy condition, but no. I guess not.” My students, realizing I was hurt, called back the rest of our group who had gone ahead, and they surrounded me asking me if I was okay. I couldn’t respond at first, but eventually I told them I had hurt my ankle. They asked if they could look at it, beginning to stretch out their hands, but I refused, not wanting them to make it worse. So they just stood around me as I tried to breathe and see if I could touch my ankle, and then test its range of motion. I was able to move it around more than I thought I would be able to, which gave me hope that it wasn’t broken. But I still freaked out because we were only halfway down the rocky hill, and I had suddenly realized that I would have to climb down the rest of the way on my ankle. No one could carry me because I probably weighed too much, and the terrain was completely unsuitable for that. Furthermore, there was no way my piki (motorcycle taxi) driver could make his way to me, given that my students and I were making our own path down the slope. So after about 7 minutes of resting, I decided I had enough range of motion to begin moving again. Climbing down ever so slowly over boulders and itchy shrubbery and hiding places for snakes, I was only able to put half of my weight on my ankle because of the increasing pain.
Fortunately, I made it down without any more major incidents, and after limping for about 2 minutes, my students pointed out that I wouldn’t be able to walk all the way to where my piki driver could meet me. I thought, “What other choice do I have?” I then realized that we were standing right next to a couple boats beached on the shore of Lake Victoria. My students then confirmed what they had been implying: They wanted us all to take a boat to the other side of the shore, where my piki driver could pick me up. This suggestion put me in a very difficult position. Per the rules of my program, I was not allowed to go on/in the lake at all–that is, unless I was with my supervisor. This was for safety reasons, as the lake was extremely contaminated with bacteria and parasites that consistently make people sick.
So there I was mentally panicking as I faced the choice between something potentially going wrong in the boat (which would no doubt end badly if I fell in the water) and potentially damaging my ankle worse by walking all the way back to the pier to meet my piki driver. I also had the added worry that someone would see me in the boat and that it would get back to my supervisor. After a few minutes of deliberation, I agreed to go in the boat, but as soon as my students started climbing in, I immediately regretted it. The wooden vessel (similar to the one featured on the main page of this blog) rocked back and forth as they climbed over the planks that served as seats, making me doubt its stability. I had already said yes though, and my students remained convinced that it was the best option. So that is how I found myself hiding under the uniform shirt of one of my students with a swelling ankle as I crossed a contaminated lake in a boat of unknown reliability.
Thanks to nothing short of God’s protection, we reached the shore without incident, and my piki driver drove me back to school, where my students met me later. Upon arriving, I realized with dread that even though this was my last day of teaching for the summer, I had completely booked myself for the rest of the day visiting former students and their families. Since I was nearing the end of my time in Muhuru, I did not want to back out on any of them, so I decided to still visit all of them. Not having the time or materials to even wrap my ankle, I had my piki driver drive me around as much as possible, and I simply limped the rest of the way to wherever his piki could not go. It was probably not a smart decision for me to keep using my ankle right after injuring it, but how could I do anything else when my students were so looking forward to my visits?
Beginning the next day, I rested, iced, and elevated my ankle for 3 days straight, which allowed the swelling to go down from twice the size of my other ankle to normal. However, the first couple days when the physical pain was the worst were actually the most endurable. What I didn’t expect was how much my injury would cost me psychologically/emotionally. Anyone who knows me knows that I am a “people-person” through and through. My time in Kenya was no exception, so I was determined to the most of the last few days I had with my students and friends in Muhuru Bay, whom I didn’t know if I would ever see again. But unfortunately, because of my injured state, I had to forego seeing my students for many days and completely cancel my visits to others. Thus, I was never able to visit some of my favorite students who lived up the exact hill where my injury happened, which was honestly heartbreaking for me. I felt extremely guilty about not being able to say my final goodbyes to certain students I had become so close with and who had cherished our time together so much.
My guilt and sadness were exacerbated by my frustration with having a temporary disability. During the 3 days of rest, I had to resort to being literally carried to places that had taken me less than a minute to get to before my injury. After trying to limp around, I received crutches from the same clinic that confirmed my ankle wasn’t broken, but those were almost worse than limping due to all the stairs I faced at WISER and the naturally rocky terrain of Muhuru Bay. I hated having to ask for a chair everywhere I was. I hated the slowness with which I had to move. I hated the pain in my knee (a chronic problem I had before Kenya) that was exacerbated by using it to compensate for my sprained ankle. I hated being incapacitated. Especially during the 3 days, I hated having to ask my fellow students to open a door for me or go get me something or carry stuff for me. I think they started to hate it to. That’s probably an exaggeration, but much of my depressed mood during the last couple of weeks in Kenya stemmed from noticing that those in my program seemed to be growing tired of my injury. It seemed like they were starting to resent having to do things for me all the time. I sensed that they felt like I should have been over my injury already because ankle sprains usually heal in about a week or so. But there I was limping until the very last day of the program and being pushed through the airports in a wheelchair on my trip home.
At the doctor’s office back in the U.S. I was told that I had torn multiple ligaments in my ankle and that I would have to wear a boot for 6 weeks (WEEKS!), even though I was about to leave in ONE week to study abroad in Chile. It was already stressful enough logistically and mentally preparing for my semester abroad in only 12 days. Added to that were the additional tasks of processing my experience in Kenya; managing my chronic back and knee pain exacerbated by my injury; and trying to manage my physiological reactions to the regimen of 4 different antibiotics I was taking for a bacterial infection I (likely) got in Kenya combined with the anti-malarial prophylaxis I was still taking. In short, this was the last thing I wanted to have on my plate going into my study abroad experience. But there was nothing I could do, so I am currently dealing with…
Having my injury be the first thing people notice/learn about me;
Having everyone stare at my boot every time I was in public;
Having to take a taxi everywhere by myself while my peers bonded and got to know their way around our new host city by walking together;
Having to spend an hour every day doing my physical therapy exercises; and
Not being able to go dancing (one of the things I was most looking forward to being in a Latin American country)
This stuff, on top of all of the adjustments that living in a new country requires makes me think, “What else can I be dealing with?”
People have always told me that studying abroad is never what you think it is going to be, and they sure were right, but I hope I find the strength to somehow make it what I want it to be. Reflecting deeply on it, I think my new appreciation for the challenges that people with permanent disabilities face by getting a small taste of it for this temporary period will be the source of this strength.